A lot of things are not good for us. Aren't we supposed to forgive, love and let live when it comes to people tho? It may work for your good or keep u in circles - finishing where you started. Many times it depends on the cirsumstances or the individual. Here are some scenarios from my mental library.
"Boyfriends/Girlfriends" It's bliss for the first 3 months.
You went outside your comfort zone and dated a diff type dude u wouldn't normally. OMGosh your with the first guy that knows exactly what to do before you think it. Your sick of dating and the trial and error that comes along with. You just want to finally work it out.
BUT
He had a baby during the bliss months and somehow forgot to tell you one was even on the way when you first met.
She had a baby that someone else is raising - likely in another state or country. lol joke's on you
Your true love is married but separated. Or, jus plain married and a pro at juggling the two of you.
Or the infamous, it's a first love thing.
Don't even let me hear the word abuse
Friends or the fam come before you
They cheated
"BFFs"
Friends for years but he/she starts feelin his/herself too much and gets "brand new." Should you become friends with the reinvented?
Out with the old, in with the new friends. But... umm.. wait a year later - -What's up?.... Thought we left this phase in highschool.
Tight since childhood but when you get a place together he/she bails - moving out on the low and leaving you to foot the bill.
My man comes first. Just hooked up with the dream girl. Yeah, we broke up and I need you AGAIN. But what about you?
Friends with benefits and the lines are gettin blurred. Sure did ruin a good thang. lol
Caught the bff in bed with yours. wtf
"Co-workers" and "associates"
Who the hell cares? Don't mix the biz with the pleasure or the phony anyway.
Family
The things that fam will do hurt the most. You will always see them and that makes the hurt last even longer. You can't choose them but they're yours till the end. So have your all out brawl(s) but make it work. I can't put myself in your shoes but don't regret the hold ups you had if you loose them.
I may come back to this later
Miss** 2009
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