I have a friend that has this friend that is in and out of her life depending on if his "other" friends are being bothered with him. So, she seems to be the former bff and now recurring replacement. Time and again she brings the issue to his attention or he admittedly acknowledges and apologizes on his own. However, in the past couple years he just leaves her alone one day and pops back up wit a text months later like no time has lapsed. What's a girl to do?
I have a friend that I'm not totally sure is even a true friend anymore. I'm always the one pushing to resolve issues noted or avoided. But we do talk and I feel like we are getting somewhere. However, I stabbed this friend in the back who sure got be back good. So much baggage so why am I putting forth the most effort to sew the patches onto our withered cloth?
I have another friend that roomed with her childhood friend after college. Homegirl was short on the rent and rentless for months. In addition to racking up this tab, she moved out unbeknownst to her best friend. Roomie caught up wit homegirl at grandma's a whole two hours away. All she said, when comfronted, was there was nothing she could do. I know if homegirl came up with the money then this friend would of forgiven her and excused the "hard times." Why didn't she see this coming? Bestie use to borrow $10s and $20s in school. I guess that wasn't enough to bring out her true character.
It always seems like one doesn't see or admit wrong when two parties are at fault. Is it weakness that makes one care so much? I attribute it to a conscience hard at work. I think the triflin potential is just a little bit evident in most people. A friendship will always be tested. What really matters is what you learn from and do with the circumstances of the outcome.
Miss** 2009
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